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You can also use a gold clutch

Black is a color that most people already have in their closet and its universally flattering

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If you can see your shirt peeking out from underneath it or your sweater bunches when you sit, it is either too short or too long, respectively

Looking at photos on the venue's website or social media page will help you understand what clothes and shoes are appropriate to wear to a wedding on their property