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What black tie optional really means: Floor-length gowns are always appropriate Sophisticated cocktail dresses work perfectly Elevated midi styles in formal fabrics are acceptable You have more color and style flexibility than strict black tie The venue and time of day matter in your decision Unlike rigid black tie requirements, black tie optional acknowledges that not everyone owns or wants to wear a full evening gown

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You want the design of the dress and the backless detail to be the allure of the dress, not your nipples on display